Too Much Drama Momma!

I can honestly understand why an ex is called an ex. They come around to drop your kids off and you don't get that twinge of delight when you all were 1st together. You look down on him like he is the lowest form of " what ever " on earth! You try to look back on why in the hell you were with this loser in the 1st place. Then you look at the images of yourselves that you two created together, you then remember ( or try to remember ) what you had was once special. But that too subsides, because this idiot opens his mouth and nonsense dribbles out of it like droll on a bib! Telling you what he can't do, what he won't do, and what he think he needs to do. Just can't understand that both of you are supposed to be the parents, supposed to be the adults,.........but one of you are clearly doing his own thing!

Why are you responsible for reminding him about whats going on the kids lives, when he can just as easily show some initiative and call 1st. He doesn't know the teachers name, what their grades look like, or what time they even get out of school. Its so obvious that he is clueless about how great "your" kids are and how much they are growing up between the two weeks he doesn't call or come by. He just show up every 2ND and 4Th weekend out the month to "hang-out" with them. Feels that as long as he does that and give you that piece of a check once a month he is a good Dad. WRONG!!! You are just a part time father who shows up at a scheduled time and leave all the real parenting to be put solely on the real, hard working mothers. We can do it all, but the kids need more than one parent, especially when both are available. Mothers can't show boys to be men and mothers can't show girls the proper way men should treat women. It takes a father, a real father to help give life lessons that mothers can't do alone. But unfortunately we have done alone, our mothers have done it alone, .....shit, some of our grandmothers have done it alone! When in the hell are we going to be able to brake this repetitive cycle of sorriness, laziness, and and all around "LESS"! I don't understand how a man could be happy with his self being nothing, because I know personally my biggest accomplishment in life is giving life. You could never take that away, because it will always remain strong with me. So you men that are fathers who don't live with their kids, you need to man up and wake up......BECAUSE THIS MOMMA IS TIRED OF THE DAMN DRAMA!