Tuesday, November 10, 2009

CHALLENGE!

I just want to challenge everyone today to be the best " you " that you can be. I say this as I am sitting in the jury selection room at the courthouse. We sit here looking at this video about the importance of serving on jury duty. Stating that it is a privilege, just not a right. How so many people, especially women and people of color were unable to even provide this service. So I challenge those in the " blog-o-sphere " to stand up for something to make a difference or an impact for you or someone around you. Even if it's as simple as saying, " Good morning " to the person you pass on the street. Volunteer at your kid's school, and come up with some ideas to make improvements instead of always complaining. Take the time to plan a healthy meal for your family, instead of grabbing something on the go. Set the table and ask your kids, " How was your day? ". You would be surprised to what they have learned and seen through the day.

If you haven't had the time to spend with your " Hunnie " lately, plan a romantic night. If money is an issue, plan something at home. Light some candles, uncork a $5 bottle of wine, and cook a sexy meal that will get that person in a sexy mood!

I challenge you today by calling someone that's important in your life to say, " I love you ". You would be thrilled to see what kind of impact you will have on some one's day. Love has a way of doing that to people!

I challenge you to enjoy life today. Regardless of what trials and tribulations you may be going through lately.......Just step back, take a breath and thank God for allowing you to live upon this earth another day. This is your day! I challenge you to claim it and make it great!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Baby Boys.......

Would it be too bold of me to tell these " Baby Boys " to get the tit out their mouth and grow the fuck up! Stop cryin' bout shit and askin for the pacifier and learn how to be men. We women learn this shit at an early age, but for some reason " Baby Boys " don't ever realize when they have children and get over the age of 21 its time to man up! I'm shouting out so loud today, b/c I am sick of friends and associates confiding, crying to me about these sorry " Baby Boys " who fell it's too much for them to particapate in the real world and take up the role of " The Grown-Up ".

The worst thing about the epidimic of the " Baby Boy " is that alot of these women are guilty of hendering their growth, b/c they occasionally sneak them the bottle. Missing their mommies, they don't want them to stray back home, the women in their lives will bribe them with gifts and money for fear of them leaving. " Baby Boy " doesn't even have a job and you want to reward this bum! You have about three of your own children to take care of, but do you realy need a fourth? This is the thing I don't get about the " Baby Boy " is that he feels comfortable taking from the single mothers and their baby mommas without any conscience. I just don't get it!

So my message to the " Baby Boys " out there hanging out in there momma's crib being the victim .......GET THE FUCK UP!!!!! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, YOUR KIDS, AND YOUR WOMAN! STOP TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THESE DESPERATE WOMEN WHO YOU KNOW HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM AND AN UNHEALTHY FEAR OF BEING ALONE! STOP THINKING THAT YOUR GOOD LOOKS, SWEET TALK, AND BIG DICKS WILL GET YOU WHATEVER YOU WANT. YOU NEED A JOB, HARD WORK, AND A PERSONALITY TO GET THE THINGS THAT YOU WANT IN LIFE. THEN I WANT TO SHOUT OUT TO THE WOMEN ( MOTHER'S INCLUDED ) THAT PUT UP WITH THERE BULLSHIT.......STOP IT!!!!!!!