I just want this to go out to the "girls" who call themselves "women" and really don't live up to the title. I know I usually go hard on the men, but we as "women" are the foundation that create these problems with men, so I'm calling out these so called women. I'm just sick of these conversations with these women that have nothing intelligent to say, and nothing comes out of their mouth but gobs and gobs of mindless dribble. Then that is topped off with repetitive talks about sorry husbands, dumb-ass baby-daddies, bad ass kids, and excuses why they can't do better in their life! I'm sick of it , because I am aware there are problems in life (Lord knows I have them too!), but I feel real women find ways to fix it or take advice from another older, wiser, or more experienced women.
A lot of things we as women go through is so self inflicted that it ridiculous! If I could create a list or rules for a "girl" to follow to develop into a woman I think it would go as follows:
1.) STOP SLEEPING WITH THESE SORRY ASS MEN AND CREATING AND RE-CREATING CHILDREN WITH HIM; THAT WILL NOT WIN YOU A LIFETIME OF LOVE.
2.) TAKE CARE OF YOUR OWN DAMN KIDS. IT IS NOT THE GRANDMOTHER'S RESPONSIBILITY TO GIVE YOU A BREAK. SHE ALREADY RAISED HER KIDS.....NOW GO AND RAISE YOURS!!!!
3.) SHOW SOME RESPECT FOR YOURSELF AND STOP GIVING THE "POOTIE" AWAY SO QUICKLY AND THINKING YOU'RE GOING TO GAIN SOMETHING FROM THESE MEN. LET HIM TREAT YOU, WINE AND DINE, AND SEE WHAT HE'S ABOUT FIRST. REAL MEN DON'T LIKE HOS!!!
4.) MAKE PLANS FOR YOUR FUTURE SO IT MAY INFLUENCE AND HELP FUTURE GENERATIONS; ESPECIALLY YOUR KIDS.
5.) STOP SURROUNDING YOURSELF WITH THESE NEGATIVE, HATING, JEALOUS NAGS YOU THINK ARE YOUR FRIENDS, BUT YOU KNOW IN YOUR SPIRIT THEY AIN'T 'BOUT SHIT!!!!
6.) 25 SHOULD BE THE AGE LIMIT FOR YOU TO HAVE THE EXCUSE TO BE THAT "STUPID CHICK"! YOU SHOULD HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDER BY THEN AND MISTAKES ARE NOT MISTAKES NO MORE, BUT JUST DUMB!!!!
7.) LISTEN TO THE ADVICE OF THE PEOPLE THAT HAS COME BEFORE YOU. THEY HAVE MADE THE MISTAKES ALREADY SO YOU MAY NOT HAVE TO EXPERIENCE IT.
8.) LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF! IF YOU WON'T DO IT.....WHO THE HELL ELSE WILL!?!
9.) DON'T BE ON THE HUNT FOR A MAN, B/C SEARCHING WILL ONLY GIVE YOU A "BABY BOY". A GOOD MAN WILL FIND YOU WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
10.) EVEN THOUGH THIS IS THE LAST RULE, IT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT TO FOLLOW AND THAT'S GOD. PUT HIM FIRST AND EVERYTHING ELSE WILL FALL INTO PLACE!
