What about your friends.......?

Remember back in the day when you had that crew you use to hang so hard with.......go to the movies, walk the mall, hang in the bathroom, and have endless sleepovers. What happen to those days when having your girls around was a do or die situation, when it seemed like your whole life revolved around them? Now you're over 30 and have popped out two or three kids, and it seems like friends are far and few between. Adult relationships are not as genuine as when you were younger. Adult friendships are so one sided and are more based on status and what you can offer. No matter where you came from in your younger years, we just dressed her up in all our clothes so she wouldn't feel left out, and head out to the skating rink and have a good time! Yeah, there were some instances when there was the classic backstabbing in the circle, but these grown bitches are much more vicious! They are jealous, want what you got, and talk shit about you because you got it. Hell, they'll take your man!

I want to have those group of friends that I see on TV, like Joan on girlfriends or Samantha on Sex In The City. Why don't these sassy group of women exist in my world? I want to strap on my stilettos and grab a Cosmo or have brunch and a Mimosa with my besties. I need to have the group of women to rally together when my heart is broken and we gather around the kitchen table like Blanche and the Golden Girls to eat cheesecake at midnight. Where is my Rose?! Well, I've decided to hold auditions for three women to play the roll of my besties, my crew, my friend and a confident. You will have to be that do or die chick , crazy like Left Eye, sexy like Chilli, and cool like T-boz type of women. I will let you know the place and date of the audition later on.....get your shit together!

The Cookie Has Crumbled......The New Year Begins!

2009 brought a lot of happiness, heartache, and pain. But believe me the good has definitely out weighed the bad. God has taken things and loved ones away from me, but has blessed me with abundance beyond belief. I wish I could just sum it up in one solid lump, but too much too express. I wanted to have a pity party when things got rough, but he wouldn't allow me to do nothing but rejoice in his greatness and glory. Besides blessing me with two healthy, marvelous kids, he gave me someone so great that I can't believe what I have. A great man who tends to all my needs and desires before i even wish or imagine it. I love this with every part of my being that sometimes it hurts......now that's complicated. It's like having all your dreams come true and not knowing what to do with them........Rejoice and be glad in it ( that's what my Father keeps telling me. ).

So 2010 holds the question of," What do you do next?". I feel like I have everything that I ever wanted and more. God has blessed my family in ways beyond my dreams. Well, if I have my dreams and desires, I wish for you who reads this today to start by having your wishes come true. Your goals to be met, that man to enter your life, turn the key in your new house, crank up your dream car, land that perfect job. Its yours, its out there, go get it! I prayed it.......it will happen sooner than you think. Happy New Year!